Do you derive pleasure in telling people they look ugly/disgusting because they do not fit the criteria of what you perceive to be beautiful???
Are you aware of the consequences of your actions?
Or how your "jokes" can have impact on not just the person but everyone around you who hear it?
I have been on the receiving end, where I had to pretend like what they said do not have any impact on me, but it does.
After all, we are just social animals who seeks acceptance and validation.
I do not put the blame on you if your perception of "beautiful" is so manipulated by our society that you just cannot look past it.
But if the factors that contribute to this standard of beauty was slightly changed, YOU yourself could be awfully ugly and disgusting that looking at you alone could be unpleasant.
I am not here trying to teach you to be kind when I am not so kind myself, but your lack of empathy and demeaning jokes is such a shame.
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